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Christmas 2011 was AMAZING



We started a new tradition this year…..opening a few presents on Christmas Eve. We left the girls with my parents while we did some last minute shopping. It wasn’t as bad as I expected it to be, or maybe I was in such a good mood the crowds didn’t really bother me.

I had to snap this picture of father and son playing with the wrapping paper. Samuel is into karate chopping people now – he was having too much fun with it while we waited in line.

The girls couldn’t wait to open their presents! They had set up a pile of pillows, blankets, and stuffed animals while I was upstairs wrapping a few gifts. They were having so much fun that they didn’t even see me put these gifts under the tree.

It was about 20 minutes before they noticed, and when they did they were squealing with excitement.
Every year has been different, some years they’ve had a lot of gifts, and others only a few. Ava thought that they were going to wait until Christmas Day to open them, and both girls were so happy with what was under the tree. They thought that was all they were getting for Christmas this year, and they were fine with that.

I know some kids get nothing for Christmas, so it touched my heart that my kids would’ve been perfectly happy with one or two gifts. It’s never been about how many gifts they get.
I hope that doesn’t sound shallow. It just really makes me feel all giddy inside knowing that if there were no Christmas Eve presents, and they only had one or two gifts each, they would be happy with that.
I love my kids!

Each kid got a book and a pair of PJ’s. I had been looking online for books on dancing with African American girls, and I found this one for Kiah….. Sugar Plum Ballerinas: Plum Fantastic, its her first chapter book. She’s not reading yet, but loves it when we read to her.

I had found this one for Ava, Dancing In The Wings, but it wasn’t in stock at the store because it was so new. So I ended up getting her Mia and the Dance for Two.
Both girls have been talking about ballerinas so much lately….now I’m on the hunt for inexpensive classes for them.

 Samuel has The Poky Little Puppy. I had this book as a child. Remember the original Golden Books?

I think I made the girls scarves a little long, but they don’t seem to mind. They said they like them long so they can wrap them up. Samuel and Charles have matching scarves. My mom, dad, and brother got one from me too.

Samuel and Peepaw.

We were supposed to make cookies, for Santa, then cupcakes, but it got too late. We still had all of the Christmas Day presents to wrap. I decided to go ahead and make a cake. Ava made it very clear that Santa was to have milk waiting for him to drink along with his cake.

The gift my mom gave me had reindeer food in it, so I searched in the cabinet for oatmeal, and we already had glitter. I mixed up a couple batches for the kids and went to put it in the front yard with the kids. No pictures of that because it was cold, and I thought for sure they would toss it, and I wouldn’t capture it on film anyway. I was wrong…they took their time sprinkling it throughout the yard making sure it was evenly covered for the reindeer and Santa to see so they could find our house.

I’m not going to get all deep into the whole Santa thing, but my kids believe in Santa, it’s part of the magic of Christmas around here. They ask Santa for one or two things every year, and he brings it, they think the rest of the presents are from us, but Santa brings them for us.
They know about baby Jesus, and are quite fascinated by him being born in a stable with animals all around.I know not everyone believes what we do, and vice versa, and that’s fine.
On with the show….

It had got so late that we forgot to set out our note for Santa, so I did that after the girls were asleep. I almost forgot….that would’ve been ugly. Ava would’ve let me have it for sure. I made the note and set out the food.

We were up until almost 4am wrapping presents. Kiah didn’t sleep well the night before, slept most of the day, and of course was up until about 1ish.
Ava asked Santa for a Unicorn, Kiah asked for chocolate and Skittles. We were so blessed this year, and I was happy to pay it forward by passing on some things via freecycle and craigslist to those in need.

I couldn’t stop looking at our tree this year. I loved everything about it. Isn’t she pretty?

Christmas morning! They had slept in their new PJ’s the night before, but had to put skirts on before they came down to open presents. They crack me up.

Kiah loved this hat. She put it on and it didn’t come off until later that evening, but only for a short time.

Ava calls the zhu zhu pets zunder pets, hehe.

Samuel played in the kitchen while the girls opened presents. Charles says Samuel thinks we got this just for him. We had planned on getting them a new kitchen set anyway, and then the girls kept mentioning how they wanted a new one for Christmas. We were over at a friends house a few weeks ago, and they have a bigger version of this set. Samuel played in it for a long time with one of their little girls, and cried hard when it was time to go.

I was so excited to find this one for them. I knew they would love it.

Back to opening more presents…




Check out my brother in his new coat. The next several pictures are sheer Christmas Joy. I smile and feel warm inside just looking at them.

Ava and her Animal Crossing game. She LOVES this game, and had watched my brother play for a long time. She was super excited to have her very own. It’s a really cool game.

My in-laws came over for Christmas at our place this year. My brother got the girls their very own Wii, and they played it off and on all day.

There’s always a game of spades going on when they’re around. I need to learn how to play. Charles wants to me to be able to partner up with him.

Cousins enjoying the kitchen set. They are about 2 1/2 months apart.

All the men…I love this picture!

Also love the next couple with all the women. Yours truly on the end. Samuel managed to sneak in on one…

All the kids take 1…2…3…4

That was our Christmas. I hope yours was as fun, loving, and magical as ours was!

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last minute merry making



We started the Winter Solstice making glittered pine cones. They were supposed to be magical pine cones, but I changed my mind last minute.  I used wax paper to line my trays so clean up wouldn’t be such a hassle. This was really fun, and a little messy….I think we’ll do it again next year. Thanks Stephanie!

We used up the old glitter we had before breaking out our new neon glitter that the girls picked out.

We rocked out to Tran-Siberian Orchestra’s Carol of The Bells (our Christmas theme song since 2008)and Feliz Navidad while the pine cones dried.


After Daddy came home we hung the glittering pine cones on the tree…

He wrapped lights around the staircase….of course the kids wanted to help. Have you noticed how Kiah is on the move in almost every picture lately? That girl is full of energy!

The only things we have left to do – trace all the names in glue and glitter on the stockings, hang them.
Wrap presents, make sure the fireplace is clear for Santa, and set the milk and cookies  cake out.

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Wordless Wednesday: Christmas Tree 2011



Check out more Wordless Wednesday at Natural Parents Network: Holiday Traditions.

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The Gift of Presence



Welcome to the December Mindful Mama Carnival: Staying Mindful During the Holiday Season
This post was written for inclusion in the Mindful Mama Carnival hosted by Becoming Crunchy and TouchstoneZ. This month our participants have shared how they stay mindful during the holiday season. Please read to the end to find a list of links to the other carnival participants.
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The most important gift I can give my family this year is myself. I don’t know about you, but it can be easy for me to get wrapped up in how many presents the kids get…. Are we getting them enough? Is the house up to par with the decorations?

The truth is that none of that matters if I’m not giving them my time and love. I’m not talking about being in the same room with them while they play, or on the same  floor of the house. But putting everything else out of my mind. Living in that moment with them. Whatever the moment may be.

You see, I have this thing I struggle with, I’m a perfectionist. Not so much about the appearance of my kids, or the hair and clothes, but in my ideas of how things should go.
I’ve been this way for as long as I can remember. I get an idea in my head of how I imagine events will turn out, and when they don’t, it freaks me out. Sends me into a fit of anxiety.
That right there takes me out of the moment so fast. I’m trying to put all thoughts of how I think this Christmas is going to go out of my head.

The magic and memories aren’t in how the ornaments we make turn out, if the turkey is just so, how many presents the kids have or don’t have. The magic and memories are in the time we spend together doing these activities.
The laughing, the singing, and dancing to Christmas music. The way Samuel looks at the Christmas tree, because last year he didn’t care too much about it.
It’s the look of wonder and amazement Ava had in her eyes when she sat on Santa’s lap. The joy in Kiah’s face as she colors in her circle for the day on the Advent calendar I made for her.
Decorating the tree as a family like we do every year. Who cares if the tree is bottom heavy with ornaments from the kids!

No matter what, I always want them to remember the memories we made in the moments. We’re hosting Christmas at our house this year, and I hope that everyone remembers and enjoys our presence.

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  • Enjoying Busy Times Moment by Moment Amy at Peace 4 Parents offers a handful of simple pointers to make the most of any busy season in your life.
  • Staying A Mindful Mama During The Holiday Season Terri at Eco-Crazy Mom shares her thoughts on being a mindful mama, while keeping your sanity throughout the holiday season..
  • Holiday Parenting: The Gift of Natural Play Moorea at MamaLady shares her holiday plan for mindfully spending time with children in her extended family.
  • The ABC’s of Mindful Parenting Jennifer at Hybrid Rasta Mama provides a comprehensive list of Mindful Parenting Resultions for 2012. In addition, she briefly reviews her mindful parenting journey for this past year.
  • The 123′s of Mindful Parenting Jennifer at Hybrid Rasta Mama shares part 3 of her Mindful Parenting series (Link will be live tomorrow, Dec 14).
  • Mindful Mama Guest Post from Hybrid Rasta Mama Zoie at TouchstoneZ is honored to share Part 2 of Jennifer’s series on staying Mindful for the Holidays.
  • Saying No to Plastic Toys Nada at minimomist and her husband Michael, have certain rules when it comes to toys for their daughter Naomi. Here’s how they deal with well-meaning gifts that don’t quite work for their family.
  • Can you LOVE WHAT IS at Christmas? with so many expectations and no many people’s needs to accomodate, Patti at Jazzy Mama has decided to simply accept what can’t be changed and love whatever happens.
  • Minimal Temptation, Minimal Gifting Adrienne at Mommying My Way shares how not exposing herself to tempting purchases, as well as having fun family traditions, helps keep her Christmas list under control.
  • Choice And Consequence In Conscious Mindfulness Luschka at Diary of a First Child shares her realisation that consciously monitoring our thoughts have a powerful effect on our lives, regardless of circumstances or influences.
  • Nature-Inspired Christmas Tree Kerry at City Kids Homeschooling describes how she and her children discovered the beauty and simplicity of a nature-inspired holiday tree.
  • Giving The Gift of Life Free Range Mama at My Healthy Green Family shares about teaching children how to look beyond the well-wrapped box and learn how to give. .
  • Can a collection of moments be more than the whole? Tat at Mum in search asks how do you turn a holiday from hell into a series of beautiful moments?
  • Flying Through the Holidays Jenn at Monkey Butt Junction discusses how a simple organizational plan has kept her holidays balanced.
  • Celebrating Advent week to week Lauren at Hobo Mama finds that counting down weeks instead of days helps children with the long wait.
  • 5 Ways to Stay Mindful This Holiday Season Charise at I Thought I Knew Mama shares ideas and photos that help her stay mindful throughout the holidays.
  • Simplifying the Holidays Mandy at Living Peacefully with Children shares how simplifying the holidays has made them more special for her.
  • Mindfully Managing the Mania Erica at ChildOrganics fights against “the gimmes” and shares strategies for staying balanced during a time of year when it’s easy to overindulge.
  • Six Ways to Enjoy the Holidays Without Losing Your Mindfulness Rachael at The Variegated Life shares tips on thinking less, planning less, doing less, and remembering.
  • The Gift of Presence Darcel at The Mahogany Way explains how important it is to be present for and with her family during the Holidays.
  • Mindfully meditating on celebrations Terri at Child of the Nature Isle desires meaningful celebrations for the whole year.
  • What Does It Really Mean? Staying Mindful Through the Holiday Season Kelly at Becoming Crunchy talks about how she stays in touch with what the holiday season means for her and her family, in spite of all the temptations to do otherwise!

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