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Bi-Racial Parenting. Real Motherhood. Setting & Achieving Big Goals. $25 Gift Certificate Giveaway



How was your Mother’s Day? I had one of the best I’ve had in years! We went to church and then to the in-laws where I didn’t have to watch the kids, cook, or make my plate. I left with reese’s peanut butter cups, cards, and a cute necklace/earring set.

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My Mother’s Day wasn’t great because of all the things I listed, they were the cherry on top. It was just an all around good day. My dad wrote me this awesome poem, but I think it applies to many of the Mother’s I know.

A Poem(modified a bit)and a rose for you On Mother’s Day and every other day of the year.

You are a mom of all moms
Your strength is your signature
Your endurance is your nature
Your perseverance is your trademark

Your love for your children is unmatched
You are fruitful in your teaching
Unwavering in your determination
At all hours, always there

Continuing to learn and grow
You are a living example of motherhood

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I have more goodies for you….so let’s get on with the link love. It’s not a lot this time, but the links I’m sharing are heartfelt and thought-provoking.

Multicultural Familia: Mixed Parenting & Identity – Black or Biracial?

They are half of me and they are half of my husband. I am white and he is black, so they are both – black AND white. We teach them to embrace all the parts of their whole and to love every cell within them.

I’ve had difficulties identifying as a black woman. Shutting down stereotypes, wondering if I’m black enough, hearing the “you don’t sound black“ statement my entire life. I can imagine what it’s like to be mixed and doing your best to identify with every part of you.

Finding Joy: When Mother’s Day Hurts Just A Bit.

But real motherhood? Real life? It so often doesn’t look like that. Real life has rebellious kids, fighting parents, no money for brunch much less a card, rainy days, unmet expectations, miscarriages, infertility, children that are sick, and on and on and on and on.

I. love. this. blog. Rachel is so honest and every time she talks about motherhood it seems she’s speaking right to me. She gets real motherhood. Not this artificial type of motherhood we’ve been spoon fed over the years with the increase of blogs, pinterest, etc. I’m not knocking those sites, I love them…but it’s easy to start feeling like you don’t measure up looking at all the perfect pretty that’s so easily accessible.

Project-Based Homeschooling: Friday Link Round-up.

It’s scary to set big goals. But the people most likely to achieve big things are the ones who were brave enough (or crazy enough — probably a combination of the two) to attempt them in the first place.

Don’t let the title of this blog fool you. Lori has created a  space that’s as much for adults as it is for gathering ideas and inspiration for homeschooling your kids. After reading this post and many others from this blog, I always feel like I can go out and conquer the world.

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From my May Sponsor: Smell Good Spa – A $25 Gift Certificate for the King in your life this coming Father’s Day.
I love Itiel and her products. It’s a family business making whole products for the whole family. They feel good on your skin and smell fantastic! What’s not to love about that?

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I Am Loving:



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I Am Loving:

My giant Hello Kitty coffee cup. I’m sitting here drinking my coffee out of it right now….the other night I filled it up with drank a little pink moscato out of it.

I Am Loving:

My kids curious natures and love for exploring. When the weather is nice they can often be found outside digging in the earth. Samuel got a little too excited about the worm and broke part of it off….the girls didn’t believe me when I told them it would grow back and be just fine. They wanted to know immediately how that happens.

I Am Loving:

The four hours I spent out and about by ALONE this past weekend. That was much needed and deserved! The weather was gorgeous and I enjoyed driving around with the windows down and the new Justin Timberlake as loud as I could stand it. I picked up Birthday present for Ava and Samuel, sipped on a caramel mocha latte, and purchased some new tops for myself.

I Am Loving:

The time we spent at the YMCA pool yesterday. The kids had a ball! We watched a group of kids having their swim lessons…the girls were fascinated and asking when they would take lessons(soon)and I felt anxious watching all of those kids with the lifeguards diving, flipping, practicing holding their breath. Maybe that was just the mom part of me having a little freak out moment. The kids were perfectly safe with three lifeguards in the water for each group, one in the chair, and one poolside.

I Am Loving:

That Trader Joe’s and Whole Foods take food stamps! I didn’t believe this when someone mentioned it on Facebook. I called the stores to confirm and still didn’t believe it. My eyes could not believe it when we were at TJ’s last weekend to pick up some snacks. I found dairy and gluten free pancakes for Samuel. Major mama win! I won’t do all of our grocery shopping in these two places all the time, but it’s so nice to know the option is there.

I Am Loving:

Myself. You know when you’re in that dark place and you know it’s dark, but you have no idea how dark until you are coming out of it? That’s where I was and now that I’m finally coming out on the other side…WOW.

I Am Loving:

My three beautiful children. My car. Our complicated and fast becoming chaotic(in a very good way)life. My friends. My family. Our local community. This online space and community.

Life Is Good.

What are you loving?

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Gardening: Round 2



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I’m sure we’re late in the season for planting seeds for most things but I don’t care. I brought home two bags of seeds from my friend Dee, and I didn’t even put a dent in her 25lb bag O seeds. We were there to go plant shopping, so off we went with the kids to Stoney’s Produce. They have chickens, goats, and row after row of herbs, flowers, plants, local honey, fresh organic eggs, and veggies. I still can’t believe that cute little place is in the middle of the city. I’ve lived here for four years and have yet to learn of all the local places to shop around here.

Each one of my kids picked what they wanted to bring home….I made sure they were resilient. Kiah and Samuel picked the Celosia, Ava’s is the Aster, and I have the big pink Caladium aka Elephant Ears. First I wanted them because they were pink and then I saw that they were easy to care for. My kind of plant! I want more flowers, plants, and herbs over veggies this year. Thinking of adding some pink cactus just because they’re so cool looking.

Soooooo…. I’m going to give this gardening thing another go. We had to leave our old place before it was time to harvest our veggies. Hopefully we are able to grow some from seeds and enjoy them this year. I started a container garden board on Pinterest to gather ideas for ours.  My dad wants lots of tomatoes and bell peppers…I’m going to do some tomatoes from seeds – because it’s fun and we’ll buy several tomato plants. We’re also doing bell peppers, wheat grass, chives, rainbow swiss chard, and sunflowers from seeds. I have a ton more that I want to plant but we’re going to start with those, and transplant the ones we picked up from Stoney’s.

Fingers crossed for us! What’s in your garden?

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Five Minute Friday: Here



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It’s just after 2am and I’m sitting here looking at pictures on instagram from this time last year. I’m wondering where did the time go? I try really hard to be HERE but I can’t stop thinking about the past and wondering about the future. This place of Here is a hard spot to be in. It’s been a tough year and I would love to catch my breath before the next big storm hits, apparently that’s not how my life is supposed to be right now. All I can think is that I’m not supposed to be here! This is not what I envisioned for my life. It’s not fair. I’m done. I want off this ride ASAP!

I always feel like even with the smallest steps forward it’s not enough to propel me to the HERE I so desperately want to be in. What can I do about that? I wait. I pray. I hope. I take baby steps. I gain faith one minute and lost it the next. I’m trying really hard to accept this place I’m at right now. This HERE that is sooooo uncomfortable yet completely necessary. I don’t like it but I am learning to accept it.

 

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